Porn is often a reason couples of various configurations come to see a sex therapist.  There is quick judgement as to why the person is using porn with many intense feelings that go with the judgement.  This episode is an instruction manual to start the conversation about pornography and how our values around sex can be so varied.  Also, in this episode Erika gave a shout out to all newest Patreon subscribers! If you would like in on all the content check it out here:  https://www.patreon.com/sextalkwitherikamiley